Your expectations of xhamster may be too high. :-) I find if I have NO expectations, xhamster is OK, few profiles are real, fewer people are real, and everyone always wants something from you (whatever you have is not enough for some reason.) But like .01% of the time there is a real person out there and sometimes interesting to talk to. But usually not. :-). Still xhamster has it's attractions and can be fun if you look hard enough and don't expect anything from it or the people on it. Adhik paen